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takes two. Communication is the most essential element
in any type of relationship. To understand family members,
friends and dating partners, communication must be a
priority.
Gender roles play a key in trying to understand communication.
Communication involves various emotions and feelings.
Everyone expresses himself or herself in different ways
to different situations. It may be easy for you to agree
with a friend or loved one who comes from a similar
background or shares in several common values. However,
there are times in which you may not agree with someone
else's views or beliefs. Nonetheless, conflict is really
healthy to a relationship. It provides a whole new perspective
and viewpoint to each situation. You should still respect
another person's views and their individuality.
Females do not think that it's "macho" for
males to disguise or hide feelings. Communicating feelings
can be demonstrated either through artwork, writing
in a journal or even talking to someone. It makes you
feel better when you express your feelings. Don't let
your emotions and feelings get the best of you; this
can lead to an unhealthy relationship. Feel free to
express yourself.
Everyone should gain respect when trying to understand
and communicate. Never try to hurt someone because they
may think differently than you. You should treat others,
as you would have them treat you. Communication is a
two-way street like in any relationship. You really
should never feel pressured into a situation where you
cannot express yourself, especially when the topic of
sex surfaces. Remember "NO" means "NO".
Here are some ways to improve your communication:
- Be a good listener
— Help your partner communicate more openly by
repeating his or her statements for clarification.
- Express your feelings
— Use "I" statements to let people
know how you feel. (For example, "I feel …")
- Be assertive not
aggressive — Stand up for what you believe in
or want.
- Recognize non-verbal
communication — Pay attention to your partner
by watching his or her body gestures and movements.
If you enhance these skills, it may help you prevent
miscommunication in present and future relationships.
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